Nightcharm
July 25, 2007
Tammy Faye Is With Jesus Today
by John Calendo

Who didn’t love Tammy Faye, who died this past week (but not before doing the full hour with Larry King)? She was crazy in that crazy American way. Singing and crying and loving on Jesus, then in the next breath telling you all major credit cards were accepted.

Tammy with a personal friendHer trademark was the triple-ply false eyelashes, mascara-streaked tears bubbling out through the blissed-out smiles, and an ability to sing, laugh and cry all in the same hallucinatory moment.

It was a talent later imitated but never quite equaled by another screaming-Mimi of the Christian Ministries, Jan Crouch, the Jayne Mansfield to Tammy’s purer, more sincere Marilyn.

Sincerity, that is, as far as it went for a wiggy televangelist like Tammy who would sprint off to dismal foreign slums for a day and wrap her on-camera arms around a starving child — some adorable wretch with big suffering eyes and flies alighting on his lips — and then all at once something kooky would happen.

The script would fly out of her head; Tammy could never linger too long on the negative. A sunburst would break through the tears, one of her notorious outbreaks of inappropriate giggling. She’d start praising the lord and thanking Jesus for all her own gifts, which could be yours too if you sent in the prayer money. Then, mission accomplished, sticky child removed from arm, she would store the big hair back on the private jet and fly home to one of several plantation-style mansions in the subdivisions of South Carolina.

Even staring starvation in the face, Tammy could only reflect that she was the most blessed child of the most loving God.

The gospel of Tammy Faye was the gospel of Let’s Go Shopping, and Tammy was never shy about calling on Jesus publicly, in the midst of a laugh-cry spasm, to petition for a a new Cadillac car or shiny satellite for the Jim and Tammy Christian broadcast network. With her husband she founded The PTL Club — short for “Praise the Lord.” (Or, as some insisted, “Pass the Loot.”)

Tammy in orbit.“The centerpiece of their evangelical empire,” writes the Los Angeles Times , was “Heritage USA, a 2,300-acre Christian theme park, resort and ministry headquarters in Fort Mill, S.C., [which] reportedly attracted some 6 million visitors in 1986. Those who stayed at what was often described as ‘a Christian Disneyland’ could buy eight different Tammy Faye record albums, not to mention items from the Tammy Faye line of cosmetics and pantyhose.”

And yet: There was something about Tammy, about her all-out joy in the material world, that was legit, that centered her and gave her a heart. “During the PTL shows,” Wikipedia reminds us, “Tammy provided a sentimental touch to stories and loved to sing. In a move that sharply distinguished her from other televangelists, she showed a more tolerant attitude when it came to homosexuals, and she featured people living with AIDS on PTL, urging her viewers to follow Christ and show sympathy and pray for the sick.”

Predictably, the ministry of Jim and Tammy Bakker went out in a radioactive cloud of tabloid scandal. Tammy showed a brave face to the world (though one never quite free of mascara streaks) while her husband languished in jail for defrauding Heritage USA time-share members. Eventually, though, after a short stay at the Betty Ford Hilton, she broke with the beleaguered Jim who, among other things, had been caught screwing his church secretary — afterward to pose for Playboy with augmented breast the size of car headlights — as well, perhaps, as seen cruising the local urinals — a story promoted by rival televangelists. As Bakker later explained to Larry King, “It was a lie but they knew it was the one sin Christians would never forgive.”

The Face that launched a thousand drag queens.Tammy Faye, by this point, was entrenched as a beloved icon of low-brow beauty-shop kitsch, and much like Cher, who did something similar at the time, the divorce from her duller, dimmer mate only enhanced her own incandescence. Between the runny mascara and the gaudy outfits, Tammy Faye was a creature of fabulosity, an I Love Lucy goofball, and, as such, a natural gay icon, one that would be particularly celebrated, if that’s the right word, by drag queens.

When the gently mocking but mostly enthusiastic documentary The Eyes of Tammy Faye came out, the lady had the good sense to embrace it, even hosting a showing of the film at the Toronto Outfest. Always one to get the joke, to laugh along at herself, she proved a game and lovable contestant on the reality show The Surreal Life, where she and other nearly forgotten novelty stars had to live together in an offbeat party house . There she struck up a warm friendship with the sweet but breathtakingly homely porn star Ron Jeremy and gave motherly advice to a tat-covered, newly buff Vanilla Ice, as well as that gay jerkoff fantasy of yesteryear, Erick Estrada.

Again the monk-like pop historians of Wikipedia remind us that during an unexpectantly touching episode of Surreal Life, in which Tammy was appearing at a book signing to promote her book telling people they could survive cancer as she had, she “made a plea for all people to grant themselves permission to cast off the things that are holding them back, to forgive themselves and others, to be happy with themselves whoever they are, to persevere in the face of opposition, and to show each other unconditional love. Her speech moved the four roommates who were present to tears…”

It was right about the time the episode aired , in March 2004, that Tammy Faye was told she had inoperable lung cancer. And so we saw her last week on Larry King, unrecognizable, shockingly withered up into herself like a prune, taking her leave of this world.

Tom Gregory wrote a beautiful obit for The Huffington Post. An excerpt follows:

Tammy Faye would call her beloved bible “God’s word,” then hand you a copy she had autographed herself — that was Tammy Faye. She wore pain for a moment and optimism for a lifetime. Her brand wasn’t all religion — it was all Tammy Faye.

Tammy in ecstasy.Tammy knew the power of television. Her famous tear-filled tales were always wrapped in bunny-and-rainbow endings. Long before Oprah’s famous on-air tours of her closet, Tammy Faye proudly lived the good life on TV. She talked openly about some of her favorite possessions, thanking the good lord for her luxuries while reassuring her flock that she NEEDED none of it. Her God had been the one to spoil her; who were we to judge?

Tammy Faye became a friend to everyone, including the gay community. Relatively early in the AIDS epidemic she welcomed a patient onto her afternoon chat show Tammy Faye’s House Party. She had no room for biblical intolerance. After television had abandoned her, she appeared routinely at Gay Pride festivals. The moralists had no place for her evolving kindnesses; they christened her a loose cannon. She didn’t seem to care. Her world was intact…

Tammy spoke about her gay fans in her last interview (which you can see here.) We prefer to remember her in her glory days. Below we find her in full flow as she witnesses to — of all people — Mickey Rooney.

 
 

 
 

Ah Tammy Faye, Our Lady of the Mascara. Miraculous springs of mascara are flowing everywhere today in spontaneous blessing.

©2007 Nightcharm

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13 Responses to 'Tammy Faye Is With Jesus Today'
  1. David K. remarks:

    Stray parts of my family tree originated in the same section of Bible-loving country that Tammy sprang from.

    As a child I was taken to Christian hootenannies and tear-streaked, tongue-speaking revivals. Startling impressions like those don’t fade from one’s memory easily. And as a young queer the dichotomy was shocking. Where does one go from there?

    Unwittingly, and over time, Tammy Faye became a sort of Beatrice for me. Leading me to freedom. This happened by responding to her crazy mix of sincerity, bad taste, unapologetic cupidity (always mitigated as John notes by acknowledging: ‘this must be what god wants for me’) and basic goodness as a human being.

    She was like a talisman of sorts, that did away with all the bad Christian juju.

    And yes, bringing that gay, AIDS-striken male onto her evangelical TV-fest left another indelible impression on me — one that is just that: indelible.

    I cried the other night watching Tammy on Larry King. We knew — she knew — that it was an End Days appearance.

    And it was her love for her fans — not her narcissism (as some boorish bloggers have complained) — that got her out of bed and into that studio. If I can meet my own end with that much grace and humor I’ll consider myself truly blessed.

    Lord knows Tammy was.

    And check out her hot son, Jay. Glury Be!

    David K.
    Nightcharm publisher


    July 25th, 2007 at 9:02 pm
  2. Steve remarks:

    I’m pretty sure that if there wasn’t a heaven before, there probably is one now.


    July 25th, 2007 at 9:32 pm
  3. Wil remarks:

    How gay was Tammy Faye! Fabulous house, clothes, over the top make up? I am who I am and Jesus Loves me for it? Despite ridicule for what seemed extreme or abnormal behavior she went with her life in her own way. I expect that many of the words written or spoken about her life can be, with but a few changes, be used to eulogize many of us gay men.

    W


    July 25th, 2007 at 10:52 pm
  4. Nick Nolan remarks:

    More than ten years ago, my partner and I were having brunch in Palm Springs (yes, we’re that gay). The restaurant was jammed, and so they seated us at a packed banquette right next to Tammy Faye and two of her high-haired, bauble-laden girlfriends. At the time I knew her only from the PTL club, which I used to watch for its gut-wrenching hilarity, and had no idea how gay-friendly (or rather, human-friendly) she was; even before the waiter took our orders Tammy Faye began babbling with us as if we were dear friends (her menopausal gal pals, on the other hand, remained silent and aloof). That Sunday she was - as we saw her up to the very end - bubbly, at-ease, humble, and gracious. Some folks have expressed shock at how she could have appeared on TV looking so…unlike herself, so very ill; perhaps she drew inspiration from gay men like Rock Hudson and Paul Monette who, while facing a quickly ticking clock, also faced the camera - just as bravely. Thinking of our ‘brunch with Tammy Faye’ still makes me smile, just as her interview last week made me cry.


    July 26th, 2007 at 10:30 am
  5. Flint Ten remarks:

    Tayy Faye a gay icon? For drag queens, maybe! Give me a break…


    July 26th, 2007 at 10:45 am
  6. LAO remarks:

    What a nice tribute to Tammy, who was finally a gallant, noble spirit. This piece is actually inspiring, not an effect I customarily look to Nightcharm for.


    July 26th, 2007 at 10:54 am
  7. Nightcharm remarks:

    And Nightcharmers,

    Don’t miss this heartfelt YouTube tribute from a gay man. (link)


    July 26th, 2007 at 12:31 pm
  8. Flint Ten remarks:

    I correct the spelling of ‘Tammy Faye’ from my previous post, but come on…why select this garish creature as an icon? Why must any woman who exemplifies excess and poor taste become a gay icon? Not all gay men identify with this crap.


    July 26th, 2007 at 2:47 pm
  9. Stowing Plankton remarks:

    Hey, Flint, you don’t like her. We get it. Guess what? You don’t have to. But I’ll bet if she met you, she’d have liked you. Intolerance much?


    July 27th, 2007 at 2:48 pm
  10. Gry remarks:

    I remember being five or six and eating my Captain Crunch before heading off to kindergarten. The Bakkers would be on TV in all their weird glory. Even at that age I connected the dots between the money they were requesting and the sprawling, opulent grounds they were filmed on. I have my doubts about how naive she actually was about just how the heaven sent cash flowing into Heritage USA was obviously being spent. I don’t want to diminish her suffering by any means, but I can’t quite totally deify her in death either.


    July 27th, 2007 at 5:07 pm
  11. Flint Ten remarks:

    I’m intolerant to bullshit. Oops! My bad.


    July 27th, 2007 at 5:28 pm
  12. Sam remarks:

    There’s something old school about poor Tammy Faye as well. Which is oddly comforting to some of us. Because sometimes fakeness is better than brutal honesty. The kind of brutality we’re all faced with on a daily basis, with people telling you outright they won’t help you, will walk away, will tell you to f-off, or that your clueless and you suck. Old school is different, even when it’s fake or false, it becomes so fake that it turns true. You do see the genuineness inside Tammy, and a kind of innocence.


    July 28th, 2007 at 10:13 am
  13. Dave O remarks:

    Like David K., I have some roots in Tammy Faye’s world, being originally from California’s San Joaquin Valley (”Oklahoma with grapes”), though I got out of there as soon as was humanly possible. I can’t shake off my negative reaction to the gay acceptance of Tammy Faye as an icon. It’s impossible for me to perceive an ally from within Evangelical Christianity–at least one who doesn’t question that deathly tradition in some way, and Tammy never seemed to reject it at all. Her stance as supportive of gays would be so completely radical to those people, that she’d have to have broken with them or confronted them in some way if she were serious about it. She didn’t do that. I suspect her support of gays was typical of the “nicer” people in that scene. “Loving” them while praying for them to see the error of their ways. May she rest in peace.


    July 28th, 2007 at 10:35 am

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