Being Naturally Receptive to Sex Vibes


by Abdul Hamid, © 2001

I'm so glad that goatees are coming back into fashion. I've always found men's body hair -- whether it be a stubbled or bearded face, or hair on the chest, arms, legs, ass, or genitals -- to be very manly and erotic. My favorite porno pictures show the model lit from behind, causing all the hairs on his body to glow in a radiant masculine aura. I also love to look at pictures of wet men, as I am fascinated by the different patterns their fur makes as the water plasters it against their skin. For years I assumed my eroticizing of body hair was based on the simple fact that hair is an outward characteristic of full manly development, a visible sign which separates the men from the boys.

While growing up, perhaps I learned to associate a hairy chest with sexy feelings since the only time I saw male nudity on television or in the movies was in a bedroom scene. You know the classic scenario -- the couple has just made love, and the man is lying on his back, exhausted but triumphant, while his lover snuggles close and plays with the hairs on his chest. They only ever show the man's chest in those scenes (even today male genitals are still largely taboo in the media), but I jerked off to them all the same. And we must not forget the "treasure trail" of fur visible on so many guys' bellies, which still catches my eye to this day, probably because it inevitably leads to an even hairier area of a man's anatomy just a few precious inches down. However, in spite of all of those obvious reasons a man might eroticize body hair, I've always suspected that there must be a bit more going on -- some other reason why manfur made me so horny.

So I did some digging around in books and online. My research into sexual energy has led me to understand that every hair on the body is a tiny antenna for sending and receiving erotic vibes. The vibes I'm talking about are tangible sexual signals being communicated by individuals on an invisible but very real wavelength. Have you ever felt a man undress you with his eyes? Have you ever felt a thrill or chill as a man accidentally brushed past you? That's sexual energy being transmitted and received all over your body.

Just as the hairs in the nose help to translate scent molecules into smells, and the hairs in the ears decode vibrations into sounds, so too do hairs on the body interpret and broadcast sexual communications. When a lover touches your skin and you get goosebumps, your hairs stand on end to better send and receive states of arousal. That means that men with their body hair intact are more erotically tuned in. Men who shave their faces or chests are significantly limiting their sexual "senses." The same goes, of course, for men who shave or trim the hair around the genitals and anus, with even more damaging results.

All men, even those whose bodies are naturally relatively smooth, are covered in hair follicles. It isn't that hairier men are more masculine than their shaved fellow men, but that they are more receptive to sex vibes. If you are horny as fuck and want to find a partner to get off with, the hairier men around you will be the first to pick up on your energy because they have so many antennae for receiving erotic signals. When guys at dance clubs strip off their shirts, they aren't merely feeling overheated or trying to show off their muscular pecs -- they are trying (albeit unconsciously in most cases) to pick up on the erotic energy from all the horny men gyrating around them.

When I'm lounging around with my man or we're lying in bed, I can never resist running my fingertips across the bristling hairs on his chest. I make little spiral patterns with my fingertips as I follow the shapes his fur makes across his torso: the diamond that starts below his neck, spreads across his pecs, and tapers as it reaches his abs; the dark line of hair that crawls down the center of his abs toward his belly button and then leads to his crotch; the oval shape of spiky hairs at the center of his stomach; the circles of hair surrounding his nipples; the thick, bushy patch at his sternum. When my man starts to get goosebumps, I know that his erotic antennae are turned on. If I leave my hand in one place very long, his hairs move slightly, tickling my palm with their electrical charge of erotic energy. But at that point I usually flip my wrist and sweep the back of my hand across the hairs on my man's chest so that I can feel his hairs interact with mine.

If you don't like the look of your body hair, my suggestion is to try bleaching the hairs to make them less noticeable. There are non-irritating body hair lightening creams available in most drug stores (usually sold to women for use on their faces and arms, but effective on men's hair, too). If you absolutely must trim your body hairs, avoid shaving them completely. A short antenna for sex vibes is better than no antenna at all. Try going natural for several weeks and see if you can't detect a measurable increase in your sexual sensitivity. From my own personal experience, oral sex in particular was never better than when my man grew a goatee. He never tries to talk when his mouth is full, but his beard and my pubes were communicating up a storm!




Abdul Hamid is a regular contributor to Nightcharm. His column appears regularly in the Art and Spirit section of this site. He is also the creator of the popular website Abdul's Waking Dream You may email him here.