I work with many straight identified men who know they have desire in their butts but would not dream of asking their girlfriends or wives to play there for fear that either they would be considered kinky, dirty or worst of all, "gay." For some of them it such a "dirty little secret desire" that they find their way to me through the gay press, knowing that they can explore safely with me—and always they relax and open up wonderfully—but even then still claim they could not ever approach their partner. But, what the heck, I don't mind because I just love working with Straight men!

		I find it incredibly reassuring to see that there are now videos available for male/female couples who are interested in exploring sexual role reversal. One in particular comes to mind: Bend over Boyfriend. The fact that this video exists thrills me because it says to me that finally there is a market for straight or bi men to explore being fucked by a cock (albeit a rubber one) and therefore, perhaps unknowingly, let go of the idea that surrendering and being passive is about being a "girl," or worse perhaps, being "a Fag." I am sure that if every straight identified male in our culture learned to love being penetrated by a cock, dildo, cucumber etc, our culture might look a lot less ghettoized —as in Amsterdam, certainly the most sexually progressive city I have ever spent time in. So this is a plea to all gay men out there—do your part and give as many straight men as you can the opportunity to be penetrated, after all they deserve (need) it.
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