The "Rosebud" (sphincter) responds to gentle touch and the warmth of a caress in the same way a rosebud in the garden responds to the warmth of the sun and caresses of a gentle breeze - that is, it slowly begins to open and reveal all its full beauty when it is good and ready. Just as there is no forcing the rose to bloom, there is much to be gained from allowing the sphincter to relax and invite penetration when it is ready. Many of my clients are often timid or afraid of allowing butt work either because they have been hurt so much there that they never bothered to continue exploring, or sometimes simply have never been stimulated there and imagine it will be painful. So often as I begin working with them they are thrilled to discover a new and highly erotic zone which opens up a whole new world to them.
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